So I have been cleaning out my draft blog posts and this is the last one That I have. It was always going to be one of the last ones, partly because I thought we would have a pretty good idea of what we wanted it to look like. But my idea of how this post was going to go has changed. so this will be My view of that day, specially since it has become burned into my dreams more and more with each passing day.

I have been to quite a few different weddings, and with most of them, there is something that sticks out to me. My brothers’ weddings have a deep family element, each with their own defining song that will bring me back to that day (Ben’s and Adam’s). Watching someone you grew up with make the biggest decision of their life is more then moving, it is life-changing. It not only grew my family, but my understanding of the different faces love can have.

With my friends Ben and Lindsay, their wedding was beyond fun. I will always remember our bus ride from the ceremony to the reception. It felt perfect. It was what you would expect, just pure unadulterated fun. There was only smiles, only happy thoughts and at that moment I didn’t think anyone could possibility be better together then those two. It reminded me to find that person who I want to spend all the happiest days of my life at.

With Timm and Mara’s wedding I found myself convinced that everyone has their match.  Their wedding was unique and totally fit who they are. It was refreshing to see that they did things their way and didn’t bend to what others thought or what might be “traditional”.

At Jayme’s friends’ wedding we had a lot of fun, but what was the biggest memory for me was being there with Jayme’s parents. These are the people I will be asking for their blessing on my proposal. Someday they will be at My wedding and witness me and Jayme becoming one.

So what will our wedding look like? that question  has so many answers (ones I am Jayme wants input on ;). But there are a few things I know for certain.

It will have family and the coming together of all those we love and love us. Their will be a great group of friends who will celebrate with us and make sure the night is unforgettable. It will reflect our love and who we are as people. The little goofy things we do, the sweet way we talk to each other. but most of all it will have me and Jayme together sharing a table, a day, and most importantly a name. I will be hers and she mine for the rest of forever.